Break Free from Sexual Addiction by Getting God Involved

The most powerful thing I do at this website is pray for people who want to break free from Christian sexual addiction.

     

christian sexual addictionThe process is 4 simple steps that are completly anonymous:

  1. Leave your name and what you want prayer for in the comment section.
  2. I will be notified almost immediatly though my email that somebody left a comment.
  3. I take all the comments/prayer requests and pray for them.
  4. I have a list of people with similar stuggles and ask them to pray as well.

If you’ve tried other things and they didn’t work how about giving prayer a chance?

 


Please Please Please leave your prayer request below so that I can pray for you.

God Bless, Deacon Pepper

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85 Comments posted on "Free Prayer: The Cure For Christian Sexual Addiction"
Anonymous on August 7th, 2009 at 5:03 pm #

Guys i’m addicted to porn and the Lord is being dealing with me…one time the Lord told me it was a specific deed i did that was the root which made me an slave to lust….

it’s been a long time and i lost the love towards God,my righteous desires,sometimes i don’t even feel sorry….the spiritual gifts the Lord gave to me dissipated…

the righteous desire of having a wife and kids is gone….and now i desire a girl just to have sex with her….

i can’t see a girl in a pure way…i can feel my heart treasuring the girl’s intimate parts….i lost sensivity to the Lord’s Spirit’s voice

I need help please pray for me


Zach on October 20th, 2009 at 11:30 pm #

Please pray for me. I got addicted at an early age. it started out with japanese cartoons and its gotten way harder and way more perverse. i see no way out. i feel unforgivable because now i struggle with homosexuality. please pray for freedom and forgivness. im scared that there is no hope for me now…


joseph on October 26th, 2009 at 4:33 pm #

Hi there,

Please do pray for me to come out of the sexual feelings. it is killing me,
Please pray for me.


jack on October 26th, 2009 at 4:34 pm #

the sexual things are arresting my mind to think. please pray for me to come out of it


Zach on November 2nd, 2009 at 8:35 pm #

You asked me to share my story so here i am. It started when i was eleven. I found japanese cartoonish pictures. after that i would return to the site once a month. I would feel guilty for weeks after and i would promise myself i would never do it again. What a freaking lie. it got to where i would watch porn once a week and now usually once every four days. the stuff has gotten worse and worse. now i sturggle with homosexuality in porn which i think has some stuff that happened when i was a kid but i can’t be sure. God has been working in me. I have joined a course called setitng the captives free which has been helpfull. i have made a weekd for the first time in what i think is a few years. I have hope now that one day i might be free. Just pray for encouregment adn that god would forgive me everytime i fall and WIll one day take me from my mess and make me pure. i want to feel his love again.


Jonathan on November 7th, 2009 at 11:17 pm #

Hey,
I will pray for all of you as you fight this evil temptation. I too am addicted to porn and masturbation. Been doing it many years now and it has been detrimental in my relationships with God, family, friends, and women. Only very recently have I begun to fight this and the temptation comes back so often. Please pray for me to fight this. I have also been struggling with trying to tell someone about this. I know I need an accountability partner but I cant bring myself to tell anyone yet. I appreciate all of your support and hope God’s love will bring us all through this.


Anonymous on November 10th, 2009 at 6:47 pm #

Please pray for strength in my struggle with lust. I have struggled for so long and it has deeply affected my marriage. Please pray that God will bring renewal in my life that I may serve him with all my heart, soul and mind.


Anonymous on November 16th, 2009 at 9:10 pm #

Please , please pray for me as I am really struggling with sex addiction. It seems to seize ma at every opportunity. I fell guilty and full of shame. I have tried so may times to break free from it , but I need an exteranl power that can just grab inside of me and pull me upright agian. i don’t want to live bent down


Jason on November 18th, 2009 at 10:36 pm #

please pray for me…I’m a slave to Lust trying to break free and run back to God. I know the way I lived is wrong and I don’t want to return to that way. Please pray that i get back in sync with God, because I know I grieved his heart with my actions.. God forgive me!


Brenda on November 20th, 2009 at 8:31 am #

My name is Brenda. My husband, is a Christian in theory, but because of his addiction, he is not really a Christian at heart. His addiction started when he was in middle school by being a “peeping tom”. It progressed in college with pornography. After a few years of marriage to me, he became a full blown dangerous addict, sleeping with many prostitutes and having multiple girlfriends. All this behind my back of course. Eventually I found out. Even now he is seeing atleast 2 girls. I don’t divorce him because I still believe that God can heal him. Also, my sons LOVE their daddy. But emotionally I feel divorced from him. I love him only as a lost brother in Christ who needs my prayer. He always says he loves me, and I believe he thinks he does, but I know that an addict is only capable of loving his addiction. I would be very grateful to anyone who would be willing to pray for him. May God bless your prayer ministry abundantly.


w on November 23rd, 2009 at 2:00 am #

im stuck and addicted to pornography.
ive been doing it and then asking God for forgiveness, but my heart is all wrong and i find myself rather acting up emotions of feeling guilty and sorry and all.

Please pray for me, that i may overcome. ive even become feeling not guilty to the sin. i have been so far away from God.

so please pray for me.


elaine on November 23rd, 2009 at 1:12 pm #

i am a church leader and ever so often i struggle with sexual fornication.my desire is to live a holy righteous life.but i find myslf like bro. paul;can u and your intercessors be in agreemnt w/me tht i be completely delivered from ths strng hld.and tht God wld remv all soul ties.i cnt tell any-one else b/c im viewed as a pillar in my community and i dnt want to cause one to backslide b/c tht blood wld be required on my hands.thanx in advance 4 ur prayers.Im also thanking God in advance total deliverance.


MG on December 1st, 2009 at 10:52 am #

Please pray that I will be delivered from watching porn.


Nicole on December 4th, 2009 at 7:41 am #

Please pray for my husband. His addiction is controlling and blinding him. We have 3 sons and a great family.I know Jesus can set him free.


gab on December 16th, 2009 at 1:36 am #

please pray for me, i am really having a problem with my sexuality. i regularly go to see prostitiutes and also can not seem to satisfy my needs for interent porn. i really need some serious prayer. thanks


russ on December 23rd, 2009 at 11:22 am #

please pray for me my strugles with sex are hard and almost impossible to deal with. Grew up in church and married a great women.I have cammited adultrey.Have had bisexual thoughts and experienced when i was a teen.Please pray for me and my walk and relationship with the lord.


Oje on January 3rd, 2010 at 1:13 am #

hi.. Jon here.. I’m currently deeply enmeshed in a web of pornography and masturbation. At the moment, I doubt I can honestly call myself a christian anymore. Please pray along with me. thanks!


theo on January 20th, 2010 at 7:39 am #

hey guys-

same ol story mixd up n relationships
go n and out of additction n then freedom for bit
fail
etc etc
cud u pray please 4 revalation n coverin but also for strengh 2 b filled stron n movin on..
me got tired of the circle i need it to break
n also rebuild my giftins da Lord has givn me n become more focused 4 my futur wid my savour n friend.


steven on January 21st, 2010 at 2:54 am #

I need prayers for my sexual addiction
or pornography addiction.It is something I thought I had gotten away from but I guess not I’ve been a christian since 1983 and I married a wonderful women in 1984 and our marriage was good for the first 5 to six yrs.I had anger problems and I was a alcoholic/drug addict.We have 2 beautiful children who are very committed to serving Christ.But thats not the problem I am,we were together for 16yrs.until she could take no more.We’ve been seperated for almost 10yrs.My marriage fell apart because of my anger,alcoholism/drug addiction,and things she said I lied about to her.Our sexual relations ended because of this and I started to view porn and sexually abuse myself.I’ve had some problems as to being sexually abused when I was in the military and I was extremely intoxicated when it happened.It has always bothered me and I’ve even gotten counseling for it,but Satan constantly reminds me of it.I’ve gotten counseling for my anger and alcoholism/drug addiction and God has helped me and taken it away from me.I stopped viewing pornography and have been trying to be very committed to Christ.But recently I’ve looking at it again because of loneliness and depression and then I feel extremely dirty afterwards.I don’t want to look at this stuff and I hate looking at it.But I’m having a great deal of trouble fighting it,and it is a sin I can’t seem to conquer.I’m asking for prayer and I’m asking for help because when this happens it hurts in my heart and in my spirit.I live alone and I’m medically retired and I don’t have many friends.My wife doesn’t want anything to do with me,but I don’t beieve in divorce.I apologize for being long winded and talking about everything in my life but I’m asking for your help with this pornography problem.Thank you for listening.


TJ on January 25th, 2010 at 8:18 pm #

I am 18 years old and i have many mental problems caused by a physical disease in the first place so my brain chemicals are already messed up. But i have totally distorted my sexual disires with masturbations and pornography. I need your help with prayers to help me get over this addiction. Thank you and god bless


Geoffrey on February 11th, 2010 at 6:27 am #

I was sexually molested at 11years of age ever since then I have not been able to break my addition to masturbation. My masturbation leads me into bondage with pornography. I have tried almost everything from counseling, books, websites, praying , reading my bible, confessing my sin, internet filters. But still am in bondage to this awful sin. I feel so ashamed of myself but only after I have looked at pornography and then the circle repeats over and over again


Robin Sam on February 16th, 2010 at 6:43 am #

Pls pray for me, I am strongly addicted to internet pornography and masturbation. I know what i am doing is wrong but i am helpless. I cannot see any girls with purity, even my sisters and bcoz of that i cant even talk with them as i know what i am doing to them is wrong. I need strong prayers. I am a born again christian and bcoz of that i cannot these matters with any one. pls pray for me


Jeff Fisher on February 22nd, 2010 at 5:43 pm #

Deacon Pepper,

Jeff Fisher

I stumbled across your site. I think it’s fantastic that you’re reaching out to those in sexual addiction.

My wife and I have been in our recovery for a few years. We could not have done it without a great support system and people carrying us to God and getting in the mud with us.

Keep up the good work.


Kristen on February 23rd, 2010 at 8:30 am #

I wrote the female sexual addiction article, and, after a while to think about it, pray, and study God’s word, I want to expand on it.
Concerning the “Breaking free from it” section, that was a dream showing me how I would break free from the spiritual bondage that had come upon me through my fleshly deceitful acts and years of sexual perversion (looking at pornography as an early adolescent, also deeply rooted insecurities, social anxiety, loneliness). The only way to break free from bondage is to reach your hands up to God with a humble, repentant spirit. God showed me in my dream that He would in turn meet me half way if I would take the first step towards repentance. It took me a while to learn what true repentance meant because my heart had become so calloused (still learning). I was standing in a dirty bathroom, vulnerable to disease and all kinds of filth. I willingly walked in there as if I didn’t know how disgusting it was. It’s important to learn how disgusting sin is to God and how much it hinders your relationship with Him.
I can’t express enough how deceitful the devil is. He is like a serpent, he is tricky. He will play on your emotions and insecurities if you allow sin into your life. When you willingly disobey God, you walk away from his fold and you are open to attack. If you earnestly seek Him, you will find Him, but that doesn’t mean you won’t lose a limb. That is why Jesus said it is better to lop off the limb that is causing you to sin in the first place. He knows how difficult it can be for a Christian who is wavering in faith and obedience to break the demonic bondages that are formed as a result of sin.
In the first place, God wants your heart to change. If you talk to Him more, you will grow to know and love Him more, and will be better able to stand up against temptation. You will learn the ways of the enemy by studying God’s word. Satan would rather you spend your time fulfilling fleshly desires and then feeling guilty about it afterward, than reading a strategy book aimed against him that will save your soul.
My deeds weren’t done without punishment:
1.) My early adolescent social anxiety is creeping its way back into my life (it feels like wherever I go everybody is judging me from the inside out. It’s like a constant feeling of estrangement.)
2.) Confusion (ex: “Wait, is God really listening?” while I’m praying sometimes. It’s important to rebuke that thought immediately because it is the devil whispering like a serpent)
3.)Confusion pt2 (My fiance and the men on his side of the family apparently have special supernatural gifts(?) He is a Christian and likes to think they are from the Lord. One is the ability to read minds. He read my mind today and it made me cry because he could see all of my insecurities but not my betrayal. This could be a satanic tool that should be rebuked, therefore I’m confused at the moment but still praying for an answer. I know that satan likes to confuse sorcery with spiritual gifts from God.)
4.) Overwhelming, obsessive thoughts of guilt and being discovered. These are satanic attacks, because even though I am guilty I know that God doesn’t want me to live in fear. However else my punishment comes, it won’t be more than what my fiance and I can bear. If the time comes that we go our separate ways, God still loves both of us and has a plan for redemption.
5.) Wondering if experiences that I thought I had with God were really just creations of my own sinful imagination that needed an ego stroke to fuel my pride. This one is going to take a lot of prayer and patience for discernment. It’s easy to start listening to other voices, so reading His word is very important.
6.)The pornography addiction slowly crept in again while my fiance has been away during nights. By the grace of God I hit a wall about 5 days ago and decided to start actively uprooting the evil from my life with a lot of prayer.
God’s word says that if you have fallen into sin, go back to the old ways. I remember whenever I would feel afraid as a child, my mom would tell me that all I had to do was say “Flee away satan under the blood of Christ!” and he will cower away. My faith as a child was so strong, and whenever I would do that, peace would fill the room and I would go right to sleep and actually have pleasant dreams (what a concept!).
Mark 10:15 (New King James Version)

15 Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it.”

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who are struggling with addiction and spiritual strongholds. Get to know your Father, but know the tactics of your enemy as well. Be cunning as serpents and innocent as doves. Satan is the accuser and wants you to feel dirty, but God will make you clean if you step away from sin by faith and His grace.


k on February 24th, 2010 at 4:23 am #

hi… so im still dealing with the aftermath of some cybersex addiction i did like 4 yrs ago. i never really dealt with it, i dont know how, i dont trust anyone in my church :( thanks for your prayers. and im also trying to stop hating my dad for being a jurk while i was growing up.


Col on February 27th, 2010 at 7:29 am #

Yes please pray for me. I feel like a hypocrite. I call myself Christian yet am sinning against my Lord and carrying on with my false life whilst secretly being absorbed in Pornography. I occasionally drag myself away for periods of time but my addiction draws me back and Satan once again whispers in my ear as I engage in my disgusting habit. I am ashamed and truly want to break this obsession so I can engage in LIFE again.My life is a total mess and even though I know why I get drawn back time and time again. How can I break this cycle? All my family friends and peers would be totally shocked if they knew and I feel dirty and unworthy. I put on a good act but I know the Lord knows all and I can’t hide from him!


Willie Tan on March 8th, 2010 at 7:50 am #

Please help me. My son Colin Tan, a married man with a 3 year old son, and his wife is expecting the second child. His wife has caught him masturbrating on cyber sex many times.
When confronted, he turns violent on his wife Ning. My daughter-in-law Ning and me his daddy are requesting prayers to ask the Lord to break free from this Satanic bondage. This is an illness, which only can be cured by our Lord Jesus Christ urgently, less he be exposed in public and ruin his family. Please pray that Colin will go back to church to worship the Lord with his family and his domestice help, Janet. Thank you.


mg on March 8th, 2010 at 2:49 pm #

I think I’m in the same boat as others here. I watch porn on-line, and my wife doesn’t know about it. It would break her heart if she found out. Please pray for me that I will find a way to keep myself out of situations where I am easily tempted to give in.


Chris on March 8th, 2010 at 9:24 pm #

Hey Guys,

I’ve struggled with internet porn for a long time. I’ve reduced my usage but I haven’t been able to quit completely. I’ve quit many other addictions including drugs, alcohol, and tobacco – praise the Lord.

I still pray and believe God forgives me for all my sins (past, present, and future). I feel like a hypocrit and liar after I use porn.

I’ve studied my pattern and it seems tied in with frustration. I have to admit I use it almost like a drug.

I’ve asked God to remove the craving which is at the heart of the problem but no luck so far. I believe he has the power to do this.

I am married. I have made some progress going from a daily user of porn to maybe 3 or 4 times a month. Still I need to obtain complete abstinence.

I got hooked at a young age looking at my Dad’s stash of porn in my teens.

Pray for me. I haven’t given up hope but I’m tired of feeling like a liar and hypocrit.

I guess if we could quit sinning ourselves there was no reason for Christ to die.

That being said, I’m tired of letting him down.


anonymous on April 1st, 2010 at 10:10 pm #

I am having an issue with porn and masterbation. It seems that from looking at the comments above that it is mostly men. I saw a few women. I just messed up earlier. I dont want to be addicted to this stuff. I need help and I know it. I choose to renounce and walk away from it for good. Please pray for me, I really need it.


garreth on April 6th, 2010 at 4:52 pm #

Please pray for me as i need to be set free from a pornography addiction, i have been battling it for some time now and am tired and despondent, God has set me free from it for years but it seems that i have returned to it. Lord have mercy upon me in your unfailing love.


Daniela on April 7th, 2010 at 4:22 am #

I’m 37 years old and member of a protestant church for 15 years. I have been celibate ever since, but I’m longing sooo much to get married! I do have to admit that the physical part is the hardest for me to deal with, and very often in the past I’ve sought release in masturbation. I’ve been free from it for over 3 months now, but last week, I almost fell again. In addition, and that’s probably the root, I’m struggling with impure thoughts. I often imagine how wonderful it would be if my future husband would touch and kiss me and we would enjoy sex in different positions and variations. I don’t know know how to “switch this off”, but I know I have to stay pure before I get married. I hope so much that the Lord will answer my prayers!


D R J on April 8th, 2010 at 7:30 pm #

I feel trapped because of my internet addiction. I want God to come into my life and help me. I have a lovely wife and child, yet the temptation of the internet overcomes me. I shall pray for all the other people here. I hope that God will speak to you all and answer your prayers. Do not give up, there is hope through God.


Sindi on April 9th, 2010 at 6:04 am #

I need your help because I feel it is wrong. I am strong christian beleiviever. I really want Jesus in the first place in my life. I am working in christian organization.
Everybody thinks I am so great person – kind, sweet, caring, loving. It is but I am masturbating. I am doing it since 14. And each time ask to God “why” I need to see those stupid porno movies my stepfather watched and brother. It started with curiosity and then later it helped me to feel better, get off my tentision stress. Ja, my stepfather was a bad guy at least all the actions he have doned and my mother divorce him. He beated me as a child and even I think sexual abused, I don’t have proof but I felt that he is dressing me off while I was in deep sleep (I drunk something) and I cought him really early in the morning by my bed almost naked. He have done moral abuse and physical and traid to forgive him. But what is hard for me to forgive this stupid sexual addiction what started because of him.
Now I am 10 years older. I stopped doing it when I had a boyfriend,with whome I really felt love with but he was different then I thought. I pray for God each day that He would give me guy what takes my thoughts away from that but guys I love don’t love me or who love me I don’t see them as person I would like to be with rest of my life. I am afraid of being with wrong guys as my mother 2 times and suffer.
I am beautiful girl, clever but stupid that I can’t get reed from my problem. I am happy this is the first place I can say all. I think I all the time live in lies. I love God but betray him.
Please help me. I need support and I believe prayers are powerful. If God can heal drug addicts, alchocolics, sicknesses that just a small think then. I want to be free.
Thanks for opportunity to share my shame story and thanks to all who will pray for me.


Pink on April 10th, 2010 at 7:49 pm #

Please pray that I break free from every sexual addiction. I have been neglected, rape and molested all my life. This addiction has cause me great shame. I deal with guilt from this. I have been emotionally and mentally abused all my life. So please pray Pray pray and Pray


girl on April 13th, 2010 at 2:53 pm #

please pray for me i am a young girl struggling with masturbation i feel like iam the only one out there…i try to stop but the enemy keeps pulling me back in to looking at pornagraphy and with bad thoughts i need serious prayer i feel like i have no one to go to i need prayer


Chris on April 15th, 2010 at 10:36 am #

I started masterbating at age 10 or so.. It’s always been with me.. I’ve been a fornicator most of my life.. I gave my life to Jesus.. But all the while it’s still there.. I struggle with porn from time to time.. It just catches me off guard.. I can have times that it doesn’t bother me. Then one day I’ll be so helpless.. I’ve been in a relationship with a girl mow for over 2 years. I can’t quit having sex with her. I’ll pray before I even get to her house. Then we’ll end up having sex. We’ve even prayed together about it, then 20 min later ended up having sex.. How can God keep forgiving me? It’s like the worst drug habit.. It’s a high I can’t explain.. I’m a junkie.. I cant keep my eyes off females.. I cant even walk into a public place without looking around for a attractive female.. I even do that while in traffic.. It’s crazy!! Please pray for me


Grace on April 17th, 2010 at 8:10 pm #

Hey guys,
I have been struggling with sexual addiction, porn and such for pretty much all my life. Since a surprisingly young age. I feel like such a hypocrite.
I stopped for a while because I knew i needed to quit, but I gave into the “its natural” excuse and began letting myself go again.
I feel guilty every time i give in, but hadnt honestly wanted to stop until last night. The guy im “talking to” told me last night he had sexual struggles, and that he was reading a book on it, and talking it over with God. That really, i guess you could say challenged me, to do the right thing as well.
I am really grateful to have people like him in my life.
And i really need prayer to get out of this hold satan has on me at the moment.
I know i can win this battle.
Thank you in advance. <3


Eric on April 17th, 2010 at 8:24 pm #

I struggled with addiction five to six years ago, quit cold but suddenly backslided the last few weeks after my lust grew. I am ashamed and scared, and I have asked the Lord to forgive me and to help sanctify and renew my heart. Please pray for me


Johnny on April 21st, 2010 at 5:45 am #

Please pray for me as well. Im here in Plano, Texas. Im in my early 40’s. My addiction happened at a very young age in New York City. Coming to Texas I brought this demon of addiction with me. I have been battling this demon almost all my life. I just asked a beautiful Christian lady to marry me and I feel somewhat dirty and disgusted with myself sometimes. I know I am forgiven, but nevertheless I’m hurting knowing Im being unfaithful to my fiancee because of my addiction. Please, please, please pray for me.


Hugo on April 25th, 2010 at 12:04 am #

Help.im addicted to homosexual activity,porn and masturbation.i have been struggling for years.i am afraid God wont forgive me because i have done it so many times,whilst being repented!


nadia on April 29th, 2010 at 3:25 am #

I just want to say, it’s not just men that battle with pornography and masturbation addictions. Women also have these problems. I’m in a constant battle with this. I get days without looking or doing wrong, and then just suddenly it would hit me again. I want to be free from this, and I pray. Please pray for me to break this sick cycle in my life. I only need JESUS and nothing else. I so much want to talk to someone about this, I admit my sin today and repent! Thank you for your prayers.


mervin on April 30th, 2010 at 8:13 am #

Hi. I need your prayer to release me from sex addiction to masturbation and pornography.Please pray for me!!!


m.indonesia on May 2nd, 2010 at 1:12 pm #

I am a 17 years old girl. I have been struggling with porn since a couple of years ago. I get days, weeks, and sometimes months of not thinking about it, but then it strikes me and I will fall for it. I have been spending my free times reading Christian books and making myself busy, but it seems like it doesn’t help. I am stressed out because of this, and I don’t dare to tell this to my parents because they have been fighting for years and I never talk to them. My church friends always look down on those who are addicted to porn and I am one of the leaders there. I am sick of myself, sometimes I would rather die than disappointing God this way. I often think that God will not forgive me because I do this very often and I am a hypocrite because outside I look very ‘holy’ and no one would expect that I am a porn addict. Please pray for me so I can break free from this addictions. Thanks.


larry on May 18th, 2010 at 8:00 am #

I’ve known the Lord for quite a while but sexual immorality seems to be a tumbling block in my life. I want total freedom from this so I can be completely set free. Please pray on my behalf, and I will do the same.


Alex on May 21st, 2010 at 1:42 am #

I am 16 and I am addicted to porn and masterbation. I try everyday to stop. Everyday I fail. I’ve realized I can’t stop on my own I need Jesus’ and God’s help. Please pray for me, that he may work in me and I never do either again!


Larry on May 21st, 2010 at 6:37 am #

Hi, Ive been reading all the comments above and realized that I’m not struggling alone, I thought I was the only one hiding these addictions and struggling to pray to get rid of them.. But I see that the devil is ahrd at work trying to destroy the children of God. Well it doesn’t make me feel any better, it just makes me realize how deep this evil goes. Im also addicted to Porn and masturbation which often leads to other thoughts and deeds such as wanting to have sex. God is calling me to His ministry and this seems to be a stumbling block that fills me with self hate and guilt that feels like its about to consume me.. I pray and ask for forgiveness every time I fall but I can help asking myself for how is God going to forgive me, I know its a Lie from the devil but the fact I have given in to the one sin seems to open up a gate of other sins and attacks from the devil.. I need help, its deteriorating my self esteem and I feel as if its blocking my blessings of receiving a wife chosen by God for me, Im a very kind and loving soul and this addiction hasn’t really affected my past relationships but reading the above stories I realize that If it is not stopped it soon will.. Please help, I need to get to the source of this and break the addiction


daughter on May 24th, 2010 at 11:06 am #

I started masturbatiung at age 4 or 5. I never quit, although my mother tried to help me trun from it. Later at age 15, I was rapped by an older man. After the rape, I willingly had sex with him and “fell in love” only to be left by him. Since then, I have had many relationships and have slept with 11 men. My most recent was two nights ago when I blacked out (first time ever) and woke up the next morning in a stranger’s bed. I have gone through long periods of celebicy, trying to break free from the sexual bondage that has held me so tightly for so long, but somehow I always seems to fall back down when I am on the right track. Two nights ago was my wake up call. I didnt plan on drinking because I know where it can lead…but ended up giving in while catching up with high school friends. I think I may have been drugged. Satan always puts me in the most tempting or horrible situatuons and my lust takes over. I dont even remember what happened, but I woke up naked and hurting… I need prayer! I want nothing more than to be a whole woman in Christ. I am ashamed and feel guilty, which I know are not feelings Christ gives me. I want freedom from this stronghold in my life. I have looked into deliverence because this sin has followed me around for so long, but dont know what else to do!!!! I have been here too many times and am afraid I wont get another chance.


chris on May 25th, 2010 at 9:47 pm #

Hi, I too need prayers… I have been caught in this battle for years and have been single most of that time. I became a Christian about 15 years ago and have a genuine love for the Lord but I can’t break this terrible habit and it pours so much water on the hunger for God. Now God has given me a girlfriend the stakes are so much higher and I want to be free forever. thank you so much… in His Grace… Chris


lovingwife on May 28th, 2010 at 5:30 pm #

Please pray. My husband is secretly going to an adult bookstore and, as far as I can tell, has been since he was a teen. I’m not sure the extent of his activity there, but he has sexual abuse in his past. He is also an alcoholic who won’t deal with his addiction. He justifies living according to his rules. Despite several calls to repentance, he can’t bring himself to surrender everything to God. Pray for his mind and heart to be changed, to desire more than anything else to turn everything over to God and be free. God bless and thank you.


mmj on June 1st, 2010 at 1:58 pm #

This was left by someone else in your comment section and although I’ve eddited some of it, most of it fits me well. I need help. I believe this is going to destroy my relationship with the Lord and the Holy Spirit if I don’t get serious help soon!!!!
Guys i’m addicted to porn it’s been a long time and i lost the love towards God,my righteous desires,sometimes i don’t even feel sorry….the spiritual gifts the Lord gave to me dissipated…

the righteous desire of having a wife is gone….and now i desire a girl just to have sex with her….

i can’t see a girl in a pure way…i can feel my heart treasuring the girl’s intimate parts….i lost sensivity to the Lord’s Spirit’s voice

I need help please pray for me


anonymous on June 1st, 2010 at 10:21 pm #

I am a female in my mid 30’s with sexual addiction of the mind: that’s where all of my attacks are, by Gods grace I havent fullfill them physically but its just as well; I know what the word of God says……please I want to be completely free, and like many who have left prayer request here I was introduced to sexual behavior at a very early age and porn as well……..I battle with sexual thoughts not just with man but with women as well……….just when I think I’m free from this it comes back to hit me hard…….I’m tired and I ask God to help me; I can’t get rid of this as much as I try……I found this website desperatly……please pray for me: initials (ec) please……..I’m married and I want to be free to serve God and honor my husband……..


Sam on June 5th, 2010 at 7:26 pm #

I have been addicted to sexual sin for many, many, many years. Never could find any way out. The only freedom I’ve ever known was the last 8 months of 2009, when I worked through “Setting Captives Free” (www.settingcaptivesfree.com). It is indeed wonderful, and having been addicted to every form of sexual sin for over 30 years straight, it was amazing that I could actually have experienced the freedom I did. Unfortunately, I was not able to maintain it, and have, over the course of the past 6 months, alternated back and forth between regression and progression. Please pray that I am somehow able to come through. I want to believe that Satan is trying extra hard to keep me down, in light of the freedom I was able to experience. But, also, it is my fault for backsliding by allowing myself to follow some old patterns, and not completely exposing my sin to the light. Anyways, if you could pray for me, I would appreciate it.


sb on June 6th, 2010 at 5:23 pm #

I too struggle with sexual addiction. I have tried for years on my own to break out of this distructive pattern but have not been able to stay away for any length of time. I want to change and grow in my relationship with God. Please pray for me as I make another attempt with God’s help to overcome this desease.
Thanks


Mick on June 13th, 2010 at 11:23 pm #

Masturbation, pornography, clothed petting. I work in ministry and have been sexually broken since before age 5.


Anonymous on June 17th, 2010 at 3:32 am #

Please prayfor me. I am struggling to be free of this addiction but I keep pulling myself back down. I know that this is not what God wants for me, but I do it anyway. Please, pray that God would give me the desire and resolve to beat this think once and for all. I thank God that you are here to help people like me out. I really appriciate this.


richard on June 17th, 2010 at 12:30 pm #

lovely people of God.. im struggling in porn addiction over internet.. please pray for me.. do give me some guideline to overcome this.. feeling very guilty..
pray for me..


Harry on June 17th, 2010 at 10:12 pm #

I need prayer to cure of looking at porn online and to purify my thoughts of immoral images of women.


Daniela on June 19th, 2010 at 11:27 am #

I’m 38 years old and have been struggling with masturbation and fantasies for many years. Even when I became a Christian in the 90’s, I couldn’t stop with this vice. There have been times of sobriety (the longest was 2 1/2 years), but 5 years ago I fell back into the habit and ever since it has been on and off. The last time I stimulated myself is about a month ago, and I really would like to do it away for good now! I started taking the course at “Setting Captives Free” and I hope this will help me. Porn or TV is not an issue for me, but I’m often by myself, and then I become so aware of my strong desire for sexual fulfillment, intimacy and physical touch. I’ve never been married but I’m so longing for a companion!


Scott on June 29th, 2010 at 9:00 pm #

I’m 19 and have been battling with pornography and masturbation since I was about 9. The past seven months I gained the courage to confess to several key people in my life the reality of my addiction– this helped enormously. Along with that, I’ve read one really good book on sexual addiction, found several good websites, and have been going to a local “Celebrate Recovery” every Tuesday night. I can tell that things are changing bigtime. The past couple months, however, I’ve had a deeper, more overwhelming urge to actually act out sexual acts with women who’d be willing. Please, I ask that you would hold me up in prayer for continuance on the straight and narrow path, and courage to step out in love into deeper (healthy) intimacy in relationships. May God bless you. -Scott


Jeff on June 30th, 2010 at 10:06 am #

PLease pray for me. I have been Christian since 1990. I have struggled for over 20 years with sexual addiction issues. I have been unfaithful to my first wife and now my second. I so want to break free and find that I can for short periods of time but always find myself returing to pornography…and then anonymous partners. I love God but have been unable escape this horrible pattern and return to this sin. Thank you


tuladak on July 3rd, 2010 at 12:15 pm #

I have been a masturbation and porn addicted since very young age. please help me. I made lot of sins due to the same. I failed every times i took oath not to do masterbasin & see porn. I am loosing self confidence. I need prayer to help me break this addiction. I kept on sturguling throughout my life. please help me & pray god to get rid of this addiction. I almost tried everything.

god help me & pleasee forgive me.


bb on July 4th, 2010 at 8:09 pm #

please pray my husband be healed from lust and sexual addiction. please heal him to see the wrongs and lead him back to our marriage and home.


Shay on July 14th, 2010 at 2:14 am #

I would also like to be from sexual addiction: looking @ porn on the internet. I don’t like how I feel and upsetting God. I’m praying for everyone else on here as well.


mike on July 19th, 2010 at 4:38 am #

deacon i need prayer. i am a masturbation addict. it started when i was 14 and im 35 now. the thoughts i masturbate to are horrible. i cant live like this anymore. i have been praying for years for help but i cant stop. anything you can reccommend would be a blessing. thanks and god bless.


monica on July 19th, 2010 at 10:41 am #

i need to be freed from sexual addictions but i find it so hard to keep there images out of my mind please help me in my time of need help me to break free of this ridiculous addiction!!!! i beg you


Rick on July 19th, 2010 at 2:33 pm #

Oh where to start? I am suffering immensely with the inability to break the chains of sexual addiction. I believe it has even caused anxiety and panic. So much of us battle this, we need prayers and healing. Lord, please hear me – this is so hard. I have been hiding this from my wife and so want to be cured and live a righteous life with her. She doesn’t deserve the pain and I am ashamed – so I don’t tell her. I need a friend .. anything.


jr on July 28th, 2010 at 4:09 pm #

I am losing hope. I am addicted to same sex porn and I can’t stop. I have done so many things to try and stop this aweful habit and for a couple years I would lust over the websites and then masturbate. More recently I have gotten married and now the mastuirbation habit is gone but I am still slipping deeper and deeper. In the past 2 years I have went for counseling and group help and had a couple mentors and for nearly a year I was porn free but now I am back into it and I am completley helpless. Please pray for me. My wife knew my struggle before but doesn’t know I relapsed. I am a Christian and try obey the Lord but this is a dark weak point. Please pray. Thank


Renee on July 28th, 2010 at 6:17 pm #

My boyfriend, Chad, has a HUGE problem with pornography. I am so concerned for his safety, because the things he does to women are just disgusting. I wish he could go back to spreading the word of Christ and being a good person. The man I know now has put Jesus on hold and Sodomy is his #1 priority.

Please pray for him.


Kevin Facey Sr on July 30th, 2010 at 8:11 am #

I too need prayer. I’ve been watching porn since childhood and I didn’t have the right parents to help me or give me courage. I’m 24yrs old married man with a wonderful wife and 3 children. Porn has taking alot from me and I’m admiting that I like porn, but I want to stop my addiction for me and my families sake. I love my wife and kids daily and I love God but Ive broken my promise to him and I want to repent and ask for fogiveness. I want and willing to conqour my addiction. Please send me a prayer or pray for me. kevinfaceysr@yahoo.com


Ann on August 1st, 2010 at 10:34 am #

My husband and I were semi-committed Christians when we got married. As the marriage progressed, he ignored me and I grew colder. I left once and we tried reconcilling.
Even after I went back, my heart wasn’t into the mariage. I felt abandoned. Eventually, I decided to leave him for good. Along the way, I finally gave into temptation and had an affair. I’d had many offers, but I no longer cared about protecting a relationship that my partner didn’t care about.
I want to be free of sexual temptation. I wish to refocus myself on God’s grace continually and rest in the fact that there is a man of purity who will want me.


Peter on August 3rd, 2010 at 11:51 pm #

I do not want to give up the fight, because I know there is hope through Christ. I am a born again Christian who apparently has a problem with porn. Like so many others who have wrote you, . . . I too share in their fight for freedom from addiction, and peace to truly worship God. I have heard that Christian who have sinful addictions have lost their salvation. Is there any truth to this? Thank You Peter


Donna Bruney on August 4th, 2010 at 1:14 pm #

Please Pray for me to beable to deal with my son being obbessed with porno and sex calls please pray for him also


Daniel on August 7th, 2010 at 9:30 pm #

My sexual addiction started when I was 14 years old. I remember one day I was in school and I took my mind off work to think about looking at porn when I got home. I am now 21, I have been lusting after women ever since. I hate the fact that I’m addicted. Every day I go on the internet I can feel Satan laughing at me as he temps me to sin and lust after women. I also have obsessive compulsion disorder, so trying to quit an addiction is very difficult.


Joe on August 10th, 2010 at 12:40 pm #

I have been addicted to pornography since around age 5 when a friend and I found one of his dad’s magazines. When I began dating my wife I told her about my addiction but lied to her and told her that since I had begun seeing her that I didn’t have a desire to look at that stuff anymore. We married about 6 months ago and the night before last she caught me looking at pornography. All of this time I have been lying to her about it and saying that I don’t look at it and that I don’t masturbate but I have been throughout our marriage. Please pray for me and pray that God will please help me to change and get past both my pornography problem as well as my problem with lying. I want to save my marriage and I can’t do it alone but my wife is helping me and I know that God will and I thank all of you for your support as well.


david on August 10th, 2010 at 8:17 pm #

I started in pornography since the age of about eleven and i used to be concerned about it as being a sin at the beginning,then slowly got entrapped in it and did not care anymore. I became a christian like a year ago and God has freed me from a lot of my chains o slaveries but i havent been able to give this struggle to the Lord. I want these people involved to please put me in prayer so that i can be free and able to serve God with all my strenght which is my greatest desire.


todd on August 13th, 2010 at 3:48 am #

i just typed a long comment about my issues with sex, and it said it seemed a bit spammy and its not big on spam here, so now everything i wrote has been deleted.. I wrote too much to re write, so thanks for not being able to open up to u on here. I need help.


Clarence on August 13th, 2010 at 11:15 am #

Hello

Please pray for me pastor. Like everyone, i have been tempted into falling in sexual acts. I have been trying my hardest to break this sinful addiction, by praying, cutting certain tv programs off, and cutting myself off from people. Even though sometimes it works, the devil just comes in breaks me down even when i know its wrong, i do it anyway. I really desire to break this addiction. Its so hard to break it, when your surrounded by countless people everyday and I feel that I have to lock myself in my house, throw away my tv, magazines, and computer to get myself straight, but I keep getting thoughts of those sexual desires and I really do wish to get rid of it. Please help me. thanks for your help


Anonymous on August 13th, 2010 at 3:01 pm #

I have been in a cycle of addiction for over ten years, and I want to mature and to put these things in the past. I am committing to not seeking any fantasy or images today, I want to have a good weekend. Please pray for me and my relationship with God. Thank You.


Daniel on August 14th, 2010 at 11:23 pm #

i have been addicted to porn and masturbation for 5 years. i have found successes but a lot of relapses. i have been drawing closer to God and loving him more but i still fall. i just want to pray for complete freedom and deliverance and may God do a miracle and deliver all these people who asked for help!


suman on August 16th, 2010 at 4:50 am #

I don’t wht to do now. am 24 yrs old, i addicted to pornography with this am struggling with past 7 yrs, am born again believer, but many times i have fallen in this. i have great desire to live for the lord, but its destroying my life, am single, recently my loved one has left me, she is going to marry
other. it’s great pain for me to forget her, so now i’m depressed and to more addicted to pornography, cause of depreession. please help me………..


Alan on August 16th, 2010 at 11:59 am #

Please pray for me to gain victory over giving in to the temptation of looking at the images on the internet or television and acting upon that by masturbating. In this area, I am very weak.
I know that I am forgiven through Christ. And that I am sactified through His grace. This is just one more step on the road to sactification where I need the help of my brothers and sisters in Christ and your prayers.
I want to be obedient because of the mercy my Lord has shown me and I know what I am doing is sinful. It is affecting my walk with Him.
I shall pray for your victory as well.


Alan on August 16th, 2010 at 5:45 pm #

I need to use a good spell checker. SANCTIFIED was the word I was going for. Thank you for your prayers.


Anonymous on August 23rd, 2010 at 11:49 pm #

I had been addicted to pornography , like visiting those sites. I had been try to overcome it but i always ended up sinning against God each week after i had repented.. one question – is it got to do with deprived childhood? anw thats just random question. I just pray and wish that you will pray for me to ask God to free me entirely from this! Apostle Paul had said abstinence is will of God but i just cant absorb this.. Thanks for the prayers!


sad on September 1st, 2010 at 9:37 pm #

i have been hooked for over 90 percent of my life. i am a female addicted to pornograpy,masterbation and homosexuality. i hate myself . and need forgiveness and freedom


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